Happy Birthday, Mom!

Mom with Lady

Today is my mom’s birthday. My mom is an amazing person. As far back as I can remember, my mom has cared…not just about me, my siblings and family but about people. When someone needed a hug or comforting word, she was there. When someone needed help, she tried to give it. When someone was far away, she wrote and called. There was always an extra plate and room at the table. There was always extra space where someone could sleep. She has opened her home to people in the past, and because of it, my family isn’t limited to those related to me by blood or marriage. When she sees a dog on the side of a road, she stops and tries to catch it so she can find its owner; that’s how my parents’ dog pack has grown.

When I reflect back on my life, my mom has been there for every important moment. Even if she couldn’t be there physically, she was there–in e-mails or phonecalls, excited for my achievements, comforting when there were disappointments. She has supported me, nurtured me, believed in me, and disciplined me when needed. It’s one of the blessings I have carried with me through the years that I know I am loved. That’s no small gift.

My mom is retired, but that doesn’t mean she’s any less busy. I still see her helping people, reaching out to those around her. She now has a passle of grandchildren she adores, and she tries to be there for them, just like she has been there for us. I am fortunate to have a mom like mine and to have such a giving person as an example in my life, and while I can’t be there in person to celebrate her day with her, I am there.

Happy birthday, Mom. I love you!