{"id":1421,"date":"2010-04-09T13:32:12","date_gmt":"2010-04-09T21:32:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.puckandmary.com\/blog_mary\/?p=1421"},"modified":"2010-04-09T13:32:12","modified_gmt":"2010-04-09T21:32:12","slug":"beatles-for-me-boyos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.puckandmary.com\/blog_mary\/2010\/04\/beatles-for-me-boyos\/","title":{"rendered":"Beatles for Me Boyos"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>From the Twin-Daddy<\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_584\" style=\"width: 210px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.puckandmary.com\/blog_mary\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/neanderman.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-584\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-584\" title=\"neanderman\" src=\"http:\/\/www.puckandmary.com\/blog_mary\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/neanderman.jpg\" alt=\"Hunter-Gather reconsiders his plan...\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.puckandmary.com\/blog_mary\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/neanderman.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.puckandmary.com\/blog_mary\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/neanderman-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-584\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Hunter-Gatherer has built a crib from sticks and bark.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Yesterday morning I put a big &#8216;<strong>X<\/strong>&#8216; on my calendar on the day labeled &#8216;<strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Halfway Home Day<\/span><\/span><\/strong>&#8216; which represented halfway to our goal of 36 weeks. \u00a0Mary and I celebrated with an Italian lunch in which we stuffed her with Spinach, cheese pasta, garlic bread, and sweet potato fries from my plate. \u00a0The kids are growing like mad, my wife is no longer able to easily see her feet, she waddles like a pro now, and I finally built a crib this week. \u00a0With each new goal we reach another calendar day rises to take its place.<\/p>\n<h2>Concordance<\/h2>\n<p>Mary has already mentioned <a title=\"Mary's post\" href=\"http:\/\/www.puckandmary.com\/blog_mary\/2010\/04\/twin-day-sort-of\/\">Twin-to-Twin Transfusion Syndrome (TTTS) in her blog post earlier<\/a>. \u00a0With this in mind getting the boys through the second trimester with good growth is really key for us. \u00a0Dr. Hershey, the baby-ninja, tells us that the boys are &#8216;concordant&#8217; in growth which is a good thing.<\/p>\n<p>Stage I TTTS is defined as 20% or greater discordance in growth. \u00a0Because I am an engineer I tend to fall back on math and data. \u00a0I want to know exactly how concordant these guys are to each other.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Alexander<\/strong> &#8211; 19.2 weeks<\/li>\n<li><strong>Dominic<\/strong> &#8211; 19.0 weeks<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Break that out into days of growth:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Alexander<\/strong> &#8211; 134.4 days<\/li>\n<li><strong>Dominic<\/strong> &#8211; 133 days<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">133 \/ 134.4 =<span style=\"color: #008080;\"> <\/span><strong><span style=\"color: #008000;\">98.96% Concordance<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That is very close to 99% when it comes to matching their growth levels. \u00a0It is so close to perfect that Twin-Mommy deserves some credit for eating well and coaching those guys on their first lessons in sharing. \u00a0For the moment anyone reading this can breathe a big sigh of relief with that 99% number being a serious comfort.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll do what I can to keep this concordance number current as we move forward. \u00a0For reference&#8217;s sake that&#8217;s about 6 inches from head to bottom for each boy. \u00a0We&#8217;ll try to find an appropriate fruit for another side by side comparison.<\/p>\n<h2>Due Date?<\/h2>\n<p>Let&#8217;s assume the baby-ninja is correct and our due date is actually <strong>August 30, 2010<\/strong>. \u00a0You cannot doubt the baby-ninja because his powers are mysterious, and he also seems very nice (for a ninja). \u00a0If he is correct Monday, April 12 is week 20 for us.<\/p>\n<p>We just want to keep that growth going strong for both boys over the next 8 weeks and 4 days when we hit our next big goal which I hereby dub <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Homefree Day<\/span><\/span><\/strong> on June 7, 2010.<\/p>\n<p>On <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Homefree Day<\/span><\/span><\/strong>, our kids hit about a 90% chance of survival if born that day. \u00a0They have cleared all the major hurdles and they are beginning their last few weeks of prep work with their mom before they are introduced to a dad, a great dane, and a bunch of eager family members on both sides. \u00a0On that day the Twin-Daddy may have to have a party because he can, hopefully, relax a little bit. \u00a0(As much as any father ever gets to relax.)<\/p>\n<p>Even better, every day after week 28 the boys get better odds because they become more and more ready to exit the <a title=\"Queen Belly\" href=\"http:\/\/www.puckandmary.com\/blog_mary\/2010\/04\/belly-wars\/\">Queen Belly<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m about 7 miles from the hospital, and I can get my wife there in a jiffy if the need arises. \u00a0<em>I will not speed&#8230; I will not speed&#8230; I will not speed&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n<h2><strong>WifeWatch 2010<\/strong><\/h2>\n<h4>Food<\/h4>\n<p>Mary is in love with turkey-bacon lately. \u00a0So much so that we teased about adding &#8216;Bacon&#8217; to Alex&#8217;s name for something like &#8216;Alexander Daniel Bacon Curtis&#8217;. \u00a0Her latest protein hit is 3 scrambled eggs and 4 pieces of turkey-bacon as a quick snack. \u00a0I think she is craving salt and is regularly going for fries, bacon, and anything else with a bit of Na-Cl in there.<\/p>\n<h4>Mood<\/h4>\n<p>Seeing the twins at the last ultrasound made a happy Mary and she gets a bit sniffly when she watches the DVD because they are pretty cute when they wiggle around. \u00a0It may be just me, but the latest profile images from the ultrasound really look like boys to me. They&#8217;ve definitely gone from possible tadpoles to actual babies. \u00a0She felt Alexander roll over today and literally stopped in the parking lot and said, &#8216;<em>Wow! That was really weird!<\/em>&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The boys should be listening now, and Mary has started singing to them when she has a moment here and there. \u00a0In one case she was singing alone in the elevator and got a very funny look from a guy when the doors opened and she was singing away. \u00a0Right now the boys are getting a good dose of Beatles, but the actual lyrics may be creatively changed depending on how much she remembers and what she wants to say at the moment.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a title=\"Mother Nature's Son\" href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=mz90jTFT6rc&amp;feature=related\">Mother Nature&#8217;s Sun<\/a><\/strong> might become:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>Born two little twinny-boys<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span><em> <\/em><\/span><em>Mother Mary&#8217;s sons<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span><em> <\/em><\/span><em>All day long they&#8217;re growing in my tummy&#8230; Baby buns!<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span><em> <\/em><\/span><em>Mother Mary&#8217;s sons!<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\n<p><strong><a title=\"He Jude\" href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=eDdI7GhZSQA\">Hey Jude<\/a><\/strong> could just as easily become:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>Hey dudes<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span><em> <\/em><\/span><em>You share that food<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span><em> <\/em><\/span><em>Take a little bit but share with your brother<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span><em> <\/em><\/span><em>Remember to let him eat some too<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span><em> <\/em><\/span><em>Then you can poo<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span><em> <\/em><\/span><em>And just start over.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><a title=\"My Guitar Gently Weeps\" href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=IfNMrnTlK-w\">My Guitar Gently Weeps<\/a><\/strong>:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>I look at my tummy and I see what it&#8217;s keeping<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span><em> <\/em><\/span><em>While my two boys gently sleep<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span><em> <\/em><\/span><em>For every new thing they must surely be learning<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span><em> <\/em><\/span><em>While my two boys gently sleep<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Trust me, if she starts singing &#8220;<em><a title=\"Dear Prudence\" href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=Z59HteiHkZ0&amp;feature=related\">Won&#8217;t you come out to play?<\/a><\/em>&#8221; I&#8217;ll stop her until we hit week 36. \u00a0(<strong>Note:<\/strong> I have linked to the original Beatles versions on YouTube.com. \u00a0If you&#8217;re feeling like having a Beatles moment of your own, give them a click.)<\/p>\n<p>Mary&#8217;s nesting instinct has kicked in and last Saturday I found her sitting on a chair in the garage breaking down cardboard boxes because she &#8220;wanted to.&#8221; \u00a0I don&#8217;t argue with a pregnant lady when she does weird things, and after assuring me that she didn&#8217;t want any help and that she wasn&#8217;t straining herself unduly, I left her to the boxes which she broke down and then stuffed into our recycling bin. \u00a0After that it was a session in the office-become-nursery where she sat down and sorted boxes for awhile until she pooped out.<\/p>\n<h4>Sleep<\/h4>\n<p>Her nesting instinct is directly in competition with her Twin-Mommy energy cycle and so she nests in short bursts broken up by power naps.<\/p>\n<h2>Babies Countdown &#8211; The Double Header<\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #008000;\">153 days until September 9<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #008000;\">143 days until August 30<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>For the moment, I&#8217;m going to assume the baby-ninja is correct about our due date of August 30, 2010.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Today<\/strong> is 19 weeks and 4 days.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Saturday, April 10<\/strong> is the <a title=\"Sacramento Mothers of Multiples\" href=\"http:\/\/sacramentomothersofmultiples.org\/\">Sacramento Mothers of Multiples<\/a> Baby-Stuff Sale<\/li>\n<li><strong>Sunday, April 11<\/strong> is our next child birthing class.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Wednesday, April 14<\/strong> is our first appointment with the perinatologist.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Thursday, April 15<\/strong> is a doctor\u2019s appointment at the Women\u2019s Clinic, and Tax Day .<\/li>\n<li><strong>Sunday, April 18<\/strong> is child birthing class number 3.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Thursday, April 22<\/strong> is child birthing class number 4.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Tuesday, April 27<\/strong> is the <a title=\"Sacramento Mothers of Multiples\" href=\"http:\/\/sacramentomothersofmultiples.org\/\">Sacramento Mothers of Multiples<\/a> Meetup.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Monday, April 26<\/strong> and the twins become viable as early as 22 weeks.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Tuesday, May 4<\/strong> is\u00a0child birthing class number 5.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Monday, June 7<\/strong> is <strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Homefree Day<\/span><\/span><\/strong>. \u00a090% of twins born at 28 weeks survive and that number only gets better from here on out.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Monday, August 2<\/strong> and we hit our goal of 36 weeks minimum on our wedding anniversary. \u00a0From here on the twins could come at any time.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Monday, August 30<\/strong> and we hit 40 weeks. \u00a0This is our due date even if we expect the twins to possibly come sooner.<\/li>\n<li><strong>4 Weeks Post Delivery<\/strong> &#8211; 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